Sex Magic: Intention, Energy & Manifestation - Episode 12

Most people think sex is only about pleasure or procreation.But we know it's much deeper than that.

I'm diving into the spiritual practice of sex magic—the intentional use of sexual energy to manifest the life you desire. From love and healing to purpose, abundance, and personal transformation, we'll explore how sexual energy can become a powerful tool for creation when it's guided with intention. 

I'll walk you through:

•  What sex magic is and what it isn't 
•  Why sexual energy is considered life-force energy 
•  How to set intentions before intimacy 
•  Creating an environment that supports manifestation 
•  The role of breathwork, visualization, and energetic alignment 
•  Why trust, surrender, and release matter just as much as desire 

Whether you're exploring this practice alone or with a partner, this conversation invites you to think differently about intimacy, manifestation, and the creative power that already exists within you. 

As always, take what resonates, leave what doesn't, and trust your own discernment.

I'm Scarlett Draught—heavenly minded, but always earthly good.

The Spiritual Realist is edited and produced by Organized Movements

Recorded at Privicast Studio

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Transcript

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This is the spiritual realist, and I'm Scarlett Drown. This is a space for honest conversation about spirituality, individuality, and growth. Welcome to opening your mind without pressure, performance, or pretending. Heavenly minded, but earthly good. From church fans to create. But the church still know the truth. Let's begin. We're gonna start with our single clearing any negative energy and anything that will hinder us while we spend this time together. We're using rose. And rose is good for love, heart opening, and divine feminine energy. And what we're going to discuss is. Let's talk about sex, baby. Let's do it. Let's get into sex magic. What is sex magic? It ain't a quickie. Let's start with that. Sexual energy is life energy. It is meant to produce something. Most people think sex is only meant to create a baby when it actually can help create the life you want. Sex is deeper than just life's pleasure. It's actually energy moving through you. Sex can help you produce the most amazing life you ever desire. It is filled with creativity, it is filled with passion, it is filled with healing and purpose. And when that energy becomes directed with intention, it becomes powerful manifestation work. And that is what sex magic really is. Let me be clear about something. You don't need a partner to create sex magic. It is something you can do all by yourself. Having a partner is great. But sometimes you need to set these intentions alone. When you intentionally take the raw energy from your sacral center, put that purpose behind that, you can manifest the actual life that you desire to have. It's powerful. You can channel it through your goals, your desires, and even your visions. Remember that spiritually, every sexual encounter births something. It shouldn't be left for not. You can actually manifest love, wealth, purpose, a new job, a dream car, a dream person. Just through sex magic. Listen, we pray, we journal, we write it down, we affirm ourselves every day. Sex naturally also just intensifies this desire that we're journaling or praying for or affirming within our lives. I mean, I'm just saying, when I bust that nut, everything gets louder, everything get clear. I can actually see golden auras around me. I know I ain't the only one that busts like that. Whether you're alone or sharing this with someone that you're intimately connected and in sync with, it could be healing, grounding, powerful, magnetic, all in one go, or two, or three, or four. Now that we done got to the explanation. Now let's get to the meat of this, pun intended. I mean, where's the beef? First thing, know what you want. I mean, don't be busting nuts and you ain't even identified what you're busting it for. Make sure that you are clear with your intentions, your motivation, and your drive. And I do mean your drive. And if you do have a partner that you intend to share these moments with, make sure y'all are on the same page. Don't have them in here thinking they finna get a quick, quick thank you, ma'am. And you over here trying to set intentions, be equally yoked in this manifestation. Set the vibe. This not a quickie. This not a I'm getting it in the car, I'm getting it in the movie theater, I'm getting it in the bathroom. I mean, that's your business. However, you're not getting ready to do a manifestation, sexual magic encounter in those quick moments. Those moments are strictly pleasure only. In this, you're going to set the room, clean it up. If you got clothes everywhere, pick them clothes up off the floor. Make the bed, change the sheets. Yes, I mama, y'all. Change the sheets, okay? And the pillowcases, not just the sheets. Make the room have a fragrance. Light some candles. If you enter incense, get some incense. You can get a dehumidifier and put your oil in there. Get some soy wax so you can use it. Set the atmosphere with intention. Next, really connect. And let me just be clear. I mean, bathe, take a shower, clean your body, and then when you guys step in the room, there is a true heart-to-heart, eye to eye, body-to-body, soul-to-soul connection. Make sure that you guys are moving in sync. Don't try to do this and y'all just finish arguing. That's makeup sex. That's pleasure. Sit together. Breathe together. People do not realize how important breath work is, especially in spirituality. When you want to calm your physical man, your physical body, this thing right here. You breathe. Breathe with intention. No touching yet. It ain't time. Breathe. You hear me? Breathe. This is crucial for the next step. Because you have to sink your energy. You guys need to be two roads side by side. You guys need to walk a path that is parallel without touching. In this juncture, your bodies should start tingling. You should start feeling it. Don't touch. Not yet. Slow down. Stay right there in that moment. Don't chase it. We're on paper chase. We're on nut chase. We wait for it. We wait for it. Now it's getting ready to get good. Because we gonna start creeping. Slow. Sensual touches. Intentional kisses on the neck. On the cheek. On the forehead. We're bringing our body under subjection. So that we can intentionally manifest what we want. I mean a rub here. A pat there. A wiggle there. The point isn't to race to orgasm. You want the chemistry to build. You want it to build up. Build up again. Back back. You want this thing to be intensified like a ball in your hand. And when you see this ball in your hand, it has just a little glow. But because you want to intentionally magnify that glow, you intentionally move your hands around this ball that's glowing. That is the body that's your partner's body. Touch places you haven't touched in years. Crevices you haven't even been in. Slow down. Not yet. Because we're not rushing to the finish line. Again. This ain't no quickie. This is an intentional work done to get an outcome for the life that you desire. The next step is for you to make that fire bigger and bigger. Pouring a little bit of sprinkle on it. Each time you touch, each time you get closer, each time you lay and feel their skin against your skin. Here we come. The body is intense, the heart is pounding, you get goosebumps, things are moving, liquids are flowing. We getting ready. This is where you want to make sure that you visualize the actual manifestation of things that you desire. For instance, if you desire to go higher in your place of employment, this is where you visualize you moving up. You visualize that call. You visualize you having that income in your bank account already. Now, baby, here we go. Whatever you do while you're doing it, this is where it comes. This is where the thrusting and the grinding and the moving and the grooving and the uh and the uh and the hmm, this is where you want to be. All you should be visualizing in this moment is the outcome of your manifestation. Because your body, your spirit, your mind, your body is in sync. It is waiting for this explosion. This is where the climax actually happens. This is where the combustion happens. This is where all the things that you've been building up, this is where it's at. And then release. Release knowing that what you just manifested and what you did will come to flourishing. And you ever wonder why people laugh, cry, and they have these big emotional bursts after they bust that nut? Because they are actually truly manifesting something new in their life all from a nut. Boom! All from a nut. When the last time you bust a nut like that. And then don't get up, don't be rushing, don't be trying to hurry up, take a bath, wash that come off you, wash that. Don't do that. Sit. Sit in it for a minute. Let it take over you. Whatever emotion comes out, whatever thing that you need to heal, or the thing that you're trying to manifest, or the thing you're trying to release, whatever that is, be in that moment. And rest assured that it is happening. Walk away, knowing that the thing you manifested is going to come to fruition. Now don't be bringing it back up. Don't be worried about it. Don't be thinking it when it's gonna happen. Just like things in life, you gotta let it be. Set it and forget it. The timer is on. When this timing is right, it will find its way to you. This ain't just about sex. It's about energy, intention, setting the atmosphere for the thing that you actually desire to have. This is about creating something new. Mind, body, soul. Speak what you want. Be clear about your intention. Make sure that your atmosphere is set. Make sure that the release is done, and make sure that you hold tight to the faith that you have, not worrying about it, but knowing that it will happen. Now, the only thing I have left to say is go make magic happen. I'm Scarlet Drought, heavily minded, but always earthly good. Let the words of my mouth and the meditation of my heart be acceptable in thy sight. O Lord, my strength, and my redeemer. And don't forget, bust that nut. From church friends decree. If something about this episode stays with you, then you're exactly who this space is for. Share with a friend you think should be here too. You can watch on YouTube, listen on all the podcast platforms, and continue the conversation at The Spiritual Realist. I'm Scarlett Drought, heavenly minded, but earthly good. Until next time. The Spiritual Realist is produced by Organized Moon. I went from the head to the river from folding heads to touch and earth. I let the spirit guide me to the earth of the earth comment. 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